I've come to peace with Valentine's day. I used to hate the crass nature of day, with marketers trying to convince people to "show the one you love" how much you care. Yes, for only 99 dollars, this lovely heart shaped pendant will show her that you really care. People are aware that the "holiday" is a sham, some just go along to make up for other relationship shortcomings. I never got my wife a Valentine's day gift, until yesterday. I hate the day so much that I refuse to prevent it from allowing me to get a gift if I so choose. Hence, I purchased my wife a lovely bottle of anti-Valentine's day perfume. Next year, maybe I won't get her a gift on that day; I think we'll go to Vegas for Groundhog day. The point is that a good relationship has nothing to do with a single moment, it's the continuum of events that makes it good or bad. FU Valentine!